Yes, exactly Thelma.  When the questioning thoughts arise from your lower mind, shift your attention to your higher mind which is well aware of its supporting role to your heart.

If you import new commands to your processor…ie, “how can I make my hearts desires a reality in the physical world?”…your brains search engine will begin to look for (resonant) matches to the new keywords.
Make sense?

p.s. re your relocation…curiously, and since you have been so fully immersing yourself in the energy of Italian culture, is your heart perhaps guiding you to actually move to Italy and not just travel there? Are you being called there by your future self…or perhaps by your beloved? If so, that is officially too romantic to not write a book about! 😀