Hi Cindy, I am sorry to hear you are in so much anguish 🙁
While I don’t envy your position, I respect what you are going thru because it feels very much like an initiation…a cord cutting that is paramount to your success as a whole, unified being.
That said, you asked: “Can you give me any advice on how to support my mother through my process of moving out?” And my answer to that is a clear NO. Because I don’t see this as being about your mother, I see this as being about you…about your need to put yourself before all else.
It is not easy to put yourself first, to LOVE yourself more than anyone or thing…but it is a definite requirement for mastery.
My only suggestion for you at this stage would be to allow yourself to feel those uncomfortable feelings…to really embrace those feelings of abandonment that your mother is reflecting in you and LOVE yourself thru the awkwardness just as you would a child. If you do this, if you consciously allow the discomfort, you will notice an assertiveness, a power within you rising…it will be subtle at first, but as it grows you will realize that all of this, this whole scenario, is/was designed for you…for this major step into spiritual adulthood.
It is clear that your mom is playing a major divine role in your life to help you thru this rite of passage…she is standing in as a powerful antagonist to assist you to birth yourself anew. If you zoom out, and see it from this bigger picture perspective it may assist you in handling any raw emotions.
Ultimately, you are just making the transition from externalizing your love to internalizing it fully. And that always requires sealing up any energy leakages, those places in our lives and relationships that syphon our vital life force.
All in all…this is your moment. And I assure you if you have the courage to embrace it, that you will come thru it with grace. And in the process, your mother will be just fine.
Gor forth in (self) LOVE!
You are in alignment with Source and participating in the ONEness each and every time you accept and remember that you are LOVE.
You are in alignment with Source and participating in the ONEness each and every time you are courageous enough to be honest about, and true to your LOVE.
You are in alignment with Source and participating in the ONEness each and every time you are willing to put your LOVE for yourSelf first, before all else.
from Causal to Conscious Creation™